How Do You Keep A Man From Cheating?

     There's alot of buzz going on about Tiger Woods' infidelity.  And I can definitely see why it interests so many people?  If you had to judge a book by its cover....Does he look like a cheater?  I thought Tiger was a good boy!  I never would have imagined him to be a cheater, much less to have 9 mistresses!  How could this happen?  His wife is beautiful, well-bred and elegant. Have you seen the women he cheated with?  Some of them are pretty, but none are as beautiful as Elin.  And they all have that aura of star-chasing, home-wrecking skeez.  If this can happen to such a gorgeous, seemingly normal couple, is there any hope for the rest of us?

     In my opinion, and in my experience, the only thing a girl can do is try to tip the scales in her favor.  Some men will always have a roving eye.  And some women will always have the perspective that catching a man just doesn't hold the same excitement unless he belongs to someone else.  With those cards already on the table and that being said, here are some tips to keep your man where he belongs...


     Change Your Appearance Frequently
     Most men seem to have what I refer to as Visual ADHD.  Even if a woman is drop-dead gorgeous, they tend to get bored.  They are hunters!  They constantly need new prey!  Men don't masturbate to pictures of their wives and girlfriends.  They are after that "new car smell" , as John DeVore put it so eloquently.  So, with that in mind, change it up!  Cut your hair different, dye it different colors, wear wigs, wear different clothes, buy new lingerie,work out and change your body. Invest constantly in your appearance.  It's not enough just to be pretty anymore, girls!  You have to be pretty in different ways!  If you're really brave and adventurous, play role playing games with him.  Meet at a bar and pretend you're strangers, then have a nasty, dirty "one-night stand".  

     Want Him But Don't Need Him
     Desperation is a stinky perfume!  Avoid it at all costs!  Men seem to be able to sense desperation.  As soon as they know you would do ANYTHING to keep them around, they act accordingly.  Don't depend on a man for anything. Sure, it's nice having them around, but you'll survive regardless, and they need to know that.  Don't use a man to determine your own self-worth.  Don't ever be the girl whiningly asking if he really loves you, or stalking him, or asking constantly if he's cheating on you, or worrying if he looks at another woman.  If there's hard evidence he's being shady, by all means, act on it. Otherwise, act confident.  Many men will tell you that a confident, assured woman is one of the most potent aphrodisiacs ever.


     Be A Lady In The Street But A Freak In The Bed
    This probably should have been placed first on the list, because it goes without saying...If you want someone to be loyal to you, always be loyal to them.  Don't EVER cheat . Don't be overly flirtatious with other men.  Wear sexy clothes, but make sure they're classy.  Let him know you only belong to him.  Show it.  When you're out and all the guys are checking you out and he knows it...run your fingers through his hair and whisper in his ear, hold his hand or wrap your arms around him. 
     Which brings us to... BE A FREAK IN THE BED!  Hold yourself to the station of elegant lady in public, but be a nasty tart behind closed doors.  Try new things.  Be open and curious.  Take charge and be the initiator sometimes.  Talk dirty.  Do things that will surprise him.  Wear a skirt with no panties to dinner at his parent's house.  WHATEVER!  Just keep it interesting.


     Have A Life Outside Of Him
    Have interests that don't include him.  This goes back to wanting him, but not needing him.  Don't let your entire scope of  happiness depend on your time with him.  Have friends, go out and socialize with them.  Be part of separate social networks sometimes.  Don't always be at his beck and call.  Be busy sometimes.  Let him wonder....


     Modify Your Bitchiness
    Don't read too much into that header.  We're all bitches sometimes, it comes with the territory.  They can deal with it.  However, we've all seen the woman that NEVER SHUTS UP...always bitching and whining and nagging about anything and everything.  Don't be that girl.  Pick your battles.  If he promised you two hours ago that he would take the trash out and he's still playing video games, don't go off on a 30 minute tirade about how lazy he is and you have to do everything around here, etc.  When you do this, chances are he's not even listening to you----he's just thinking about what excuse he's going to give you to get you to shut up---or it will just start a fight.  Do you want to be happy, or do you want to be right?  Save your breath and save yourself some trouble and just politely ask him again to do it.  Try it and see.


   Adore Him More
    I know, it's sickening.  Isn't it enough to adore him enough to read this post?  Apparently not.  Their egos are hungry, ravenous animals that demand to be fed.  They love to be told how awesome they are.  Be sincere though.  If he does a particularly good thing, praise him for it---be proud of your man.  Ask him how his day was, even if yours was horrible.  Surprise him with his favorite food.  Be caught bragging about him to your friends.  Focus on the great things about him.




    All in all, there is no way to guarantee that a man will not stray.  It all mostly depends on the type of individuals involved.  And you may try all of these things, and they may work but if you're anything like me...you can't put up an emotional front all the time.  I just gotta be me.  But if all else fails... http://www.cheatingways.com/consequences-of-cheating/the-ultimate-revenge-on-a-cheater/!!!!